Etiquette & Appearance

How should one conduct and present themselves to Me?

Conduct Expectations—
Respect is not optional. Crudeness, profanity, or rude slang will not be tolerated.
I also do not respond to email's without clear inquiry or subject. Approach Me with intention, or you will not be acknowledged at all. If you cannot speak to me with courtesy, you will not get to speak with me at all.

I have a name. Use it correctly. Ma’am, Domina, or Mistress Vera are the only acceptable forms of address. Terms such as “honey,” “sweetie,” or “babe” are neither endearing nor appropriate and using them will get you blocked without warning.
Please note that if you enter your session with me heavily intoxicated you will be turned away.

Appearance Expectations—
Upon entering my domain or presence, you must appear accordingly.
Grooming is expected. Sloppiness suggests a lack of respect, and I do not consider those who come without it.
Cleanliness and good hygiene is mandatory. Arrive with clean breath, freshly showered and free of offensive odor.
No heavy perfume, cologne or lingering smoke. I am partial to smell the of leather, anticipation, and the fear emanating from your pores. Soon, you will be too.
Dress for deference. You are not here to impress. You are here to obey. Fetishwear is not worn without prior discussion and permission.
Shoes must stay on until told otherwise. If you're lucky, you'll be on your knees soon enough. But you don’t assume that. You wait to be stripped of that privilege.

Entry is not a right. It's a reward. And I only reward those who come correct.

Curious if we’re a good fit for play? Review my Kinks and Limits page first. If your particular kink or fetish is specific, feel free to inquire respectfully via email.