My Kinks
I’ve always had a natural inclination toward sadism and control, long before I had the terminology for it.
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Looking back, my earlier relationships never followed the usual script. What began as puppy love quickly became power exchange. What others mistook for charm or persuasion was, in truth, early evidence of something deeper: control, influence, dominance. Over time, that instinct became a refined practiced approach to psychological and physical dominance.
The core of My personal desire and what sustains Me in Dominance has always stemmed from this deeply-rooted sadistic impulse. It’s not just an interest; it’s the origin of some of My most compelling fascinations.​​​
BDSM/Fetishes I Love
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Cock & Ball Torture (CBT)
Your cock is an object of entertainment that exists solely for My amusement. As I exert total control over your body, I take pleasure in the psychological tension of knowing you’re aware of that fact. At My disposal is a wide range of instruments, each chosen with purpose, designed to explore every inch of your sensitive bits. One of my favorite activities is cock and ball stomping, kicking or crushing. There is almost nothing sweeter and more simple than a swift, accurate, kick to correct and teach you that I am your Feminine superior.
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Small Dick Humiliation (SDH)
Small dick humiliation is one of My favorite psychological games, stripping away ego and pride until all that remains is your exposed shame. I take pleasure in reminding you exactly what you aren’t, mocking your size with a wicked tone, comparing, belittling your pathetic little shrimp. It's almost endearing making you ache for the attention you’ll never quite earn; your desperate need to be put in your place. And I always find the right place for you.
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Corporeal Punishment
Corporal punishment is a cornerstone of My practice. Whether with a gloved hand, crop, cane, or whip, each strike serves a purpose: to correct, to condition, or to break down resistance. It’s not as simple as just inflicting pain; it’s about establishing my Female Authority, reinforcing structure, and guiding you into deeper submission, and I enjoy every second of it.
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Classical Slave Training
Classical slave training is a structured, disciplined approach to ownership and obedience. It focuses on your transformation from a man into the perfect slave. Protocols, rituals, and expectations are instilled with consistency and control. My Classical slave Training reshapes your behavior, posture, speech, and thought to reflect a slave’s true purpose: to serve Me.
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Deep Impact
There’s something deeply arousing about the sound of you breaking, whether it’s the sharp cry from a well-placed slap, the choked groan after a punch, or the desperate cries as My whip cracks and lands again and again. Even your quietest whimpers bring a slow, sadistic smile to My face.
But don’t worry, I won’t ruin My toy. Permanent damage is never the goal. I may leave bruises, marks, and reminders of My control, little signatures of the time you spent beneath Me. But I take pride in keeping what’s Mine in working order. After all destroying you completely would render you useless to me, and I plan on using you time and time again.
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Boot, Pantyhose & High Heel Worship
Boot, pantyhose, and high heel worship is an act of devotion and an indulgence in aesthetic reverence and submission. Every kiss, lick, or breath near boots or heels is a reminder of your place: beneath Me, humbled by My beauty, power, and unattainable elegance. Whether it’s the scent of leather, the sheen of nylon, or the sharp authority of a stiletto, your worship only feeds My control.
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Roughhousing
There’s nothing more intimate than using My own strength to assert control and authority. Your body is mine to slap, punch, kick and trample. As a curvy, commanding woman, I take pleasure in the raw physical exchange of force and submission. Using my own strength to manipulate and abuse your flesh reinforces my power.​
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Crossdressing, Feminization & Sissification
I take great pleasure in transforming a man into my submissive, silly little slut; reveling in the power dynamic that comes with shifting gender roles. By stripping away your chosen identity through objectification and persona alteration, we unlock deeper parts of your psyche. This exploration of gender and societal norms allows us to engage on a much more intimate level, shedding the expectations placed upon us and embracing new, more feminine roles.
Sissification is a source of amusement for me, particularly in seeing you dressed in the way I desire. Whether it’s simply girly, provocative, or serving as a maid, each choice in your appearance is an opportunity for me to express my creativity, guiding your transformation to match the mood of our play, using you as I see fit.
My fetish list goes on for miles. If your fetish or interest is not listed, that doesn’t mean it’s excluded. My practice welcomes respectful inquiry, please email me at obeydominavera@gmail.com
