Limits & Legality
Non-negotiable limits and legal boundaries
In the realm of BDSM, limits are not restrictions, they are the foundation of trust, clarity, and mutual respect. Establishing limits is not only a protective measure, but also a powerful act of self-awareness and consent. Whether you are a Dominant or a submissive, knowing and communicating your boundaries allows for exploration that is both safe and deeply fulfilling.
Hard limits are the non-negotiables. These are acts, requests or dynamics that are completely off the table.
Soft limits, on the other hand, may involve hesitation, curiosity, or require gradual introduction with care and communication. Both are essential in shaping an experience that honors personal well-being while allowing the dynamic to flourish.
As a Dominatrix, I view your limits not as obstacles, but as guideposts. They tell me how to approach your submission, where to push, and where to pause. True control is not about disregarding boundaries; it’s about honoring them with intelligence, intention, and respect.
When limits are clearly established, the scene can unfold with confidence, free from confusion or harm.
It is within that security that we're able to reap the fruits of our power exchange. BDSM is at its most exquisite when it is rooted in trust. Your limits are not just accepted, they are respected, valued, and paramount to the alchemy we create together.
Hard Limits—
I do not engage in switch-play. Dominance is not a role I step into; it is very much at the foundation of who I am. My pleasure lies in control, precisely administered, whether through pain, pleasure, or psychological play. This is non-negotiable.
Absolutely no photos or recording on devices other than my own.
No private romantic relationships or meetings outside of sessions.
Although I’m more than willing to physically dominate you through chokeholds, slaps, kicks, and controlled aggression, I do not engage in wrestling or competitive play of any kind.
No FT ("Full Toilet"). Requests involving feces will not be entertained.
I do not take requests for serious medical injuries.
I do not take requests for "race-play".
I do not engage with anyone while either or any party is intoxicated with any substance including alcohol. (Should you show up to your session highly intoxicated I will not engage nor issue refunds).
No deposits via means I do not instruct.
No challenges to my authority in any form in or out of sessions nor any attempts to dictate what I should tolerate or find acceptable. I do not negotiate.
Assumptions or requests for free creative talent will not be acknowledged (photoshoots, illustration, latex, etc.).
I do not accept or acknowledge attempts at further contact if my power as a Mistress to discontinue contact has been made necessary. This includes contact from multiple emails or methods of contact.
I only discontinue contact with submissives under exceptional transgression of my authority and this behavior only reinforces my decisions.
I do not participate in anything illegal. This includes everything under state regulations.
There is no sexual contact with my body or yours of any kind. This includes sex of any kind, queening, ass worship, oral servitude, nude facesitting, cunnilingus simulation during clothed facesitting, unclothed body worship, or similar activities.
I do not accept requests for minors, non-consenting parties or animals. Requests of this nature may be reported. In addition, I do not acknowledge requests simulating any of these.
Should you like to discuss your session in more detail, ask clarifying questions, or explore our compatibility, you are welcome to connect with Me through NiteFlirt, Loyalfans or email. A clear understanding benefits us both and ensures our time together is as immersive and powerful as it should be.
