FAQs
Do You see first-timers or those new to BDSM?
Yes. I welcome those who are curious, respectful, and sincere about exploring submission. I tailor each session to the individual’s experience level, limits, and interests.
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What type of sessions do you offer?
My sessions are rooted in traditional Femdom and BDSM practices, ranging from corporal punishment, humiliation, bondage, roleplay, and sensory control.
I offer both light exploration and more intense, advanced play. See my Available Session Engagements page for kinds of sessions offered and my Kinks page for more info on what goes on. ​
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How do I book a session?
All bookings must be made via the bookings page provided on this site. Read my Session Protocols carefully before contacting me. Thoughtful, respectful communication will always receive priority.
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Can I call or text you to book?
No. I do not accept unsolicited calls or casual messages. All bookings must go through the Bookings page on my site. Should you have any inquiries please feel free to email me at obeydominavera@gmail.com or Message me on Loyalfans. If you cannot follow basic protocol, you will not be considered.
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Where are sessions held?
I travel to private residence, hotels or Air BnBs of your choice. I do not host in my own private residence. I also host sessions in professional, fully-equipped dungeons depending on the city I’m working in.
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How do I offer tribute?
A 50% pre-session tribute is required to book with me. Full tribute and my rates are non-negotiable.
Please visit my Mandatory Deposit & Tribute page for more info.
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What happens if I’m late or need to cancel?
Cancellations and lateness are addressed in My Cancellations policy. Generally, pre-session deposits are non-refundable, and repeat offenses will result in blacklisting. My time is valuable, respect it.
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Are your sessions sexual or involve nudity?
I do not offer sex of any kind nor illegal activity of any kind. My sessions are deeply erotic and power-driven but always remain within legal boundaries. Nudity, chastity, tease, and other forms of control may be involved, but sex is never on the table. Please see my Limits & Legalities page for more.​​
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Do you accept gifts as tribute?
Gifts and thoughtful offerings are appreciated and one way to show genuine devotion, however they do not count as tribute. See my Throne page for gift ideas and other wish lists.​
What should I wear or bring to a session?
Arrive clean, punctual, and dressed appropriately. Do not wear fetish gear in public. You may bring personal items such as toys or outfits only if previously approved. Never assume anything unrequested will be used. Review my Etiquette & Appearance page for more info on how you should show up.
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Do you allow filming or photography during sessions?
Only on my end. Even so, filming or photographing you requires explicit prior written consent. Filming or photographing on your end is strictly prohibited and grounds for permanent banning.
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Can I serve you outside of session time?
No. I do not offer out-of-session Domination.​
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Do you allow safewords?
Absolutely. A safeword is mandatory and respected at all times.
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Do you cater to female or non-binary submissives?
Yes. I work with individuals of all genders and identities, provided they approach Me respectfully and understand My style of domination.
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What if I have a specific fetish or request?
Review My Kinks page first. If your desire is not listed, you may politely inquire via obeydominavera@gmail.com. Please note that I do not take requests for serious medical injuries. All activities are within legal and ethical boundaries. Absolutely no unsafe or unsanitary requests will be considered.​
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How can I make a good impression when contacting you?
Read My site thoroughly. Introduce yourself respectfully, address Me as "Mistress" or "Domina" Vera. Be clear about your interests and expectations. Demonstrate that you value My time.
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Can I session with a friend or partner?
Couple or group sessions may be arranged on a case-by-case basis, but require a higher level of screening, discussion and tribute. All involved must demonstrate mutual respect for My protocols.
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Do you offer online or distance training?
Yes, I offer online training, tasks, and distance control to select submissives. These arrangements require the same level of respect and dedication as in-person submission. Email me at obeydominavera@gmail.com and Follow Me for more info.
